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name: bayne-system
description: Bayne dating/texting system — default mode, frameworks, lines, rules
sources: [backfill]
aliases: []
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- [stated] Any dating or texting question defaults to Bayne's system; no trigger phrase needed; latest version (2026) always wins; non-Bayne lines must be flagged explicitly
- [stated] Never suggest following her venue or plan; always check timestamps on screenshots; frame all advice as WWBD
- [stated] Date framework (current, Jul 2025+) — Low exposure: Date 1 = café only, ~1hr, hug only, no kiss, no pull, gift if 7+ (chocolate); Date 2 = restaurant, flowers at home on table, kiss OK, no pull; Date 3 = pull
- [stated] Date framework High exposure (27+, clubbing, high following): Date 1 = pull OK, dinner OK, flowers OK; Tourists = pull sooner
- [stated] Never set Date 2 the day after Date 1; don't pick her up, send a car; in Dubai use "I have an idea" not "proposition"
- [stated] Date proposal sequence: (1) "I have a proposition for you" then wait, (2) screenshot + "I want to go there with you" then wait, (3) "Let's agree on a day" then wait, (4) day before evening: "Let's agree on a time"; each step waits for confirmation, never stack
- [stated] Proposal 2+ days texting variant adds "So many things to say" opener and "so we get to know each others more" closer
- [stated] Core rules (2026): never acknowledge her silence, act like misunderstanding; never react to old stories already seen; stories with other girls = no; stop liking posts; IG following = mostly meme pages + local restaurants; no music/location tags on stories; no grid; don't say "date," say "meeting"; never tell her what to wear
- [stated] Key lines: "I have a proposition for you" / "I want to go there with you" (screenshot) / "Let's agree on a day" / "Are you too cool to reply?" / "(Name), I'm wondering if you also ignore everyone else or just me" / "We had a meeting planned and you cancelled last minute. Do you think it's normal?" / "How are we going to meet if you are so busy?" / "I'm disappointed by your behavior" (nuclear) / "We will never meet again" (post-date 2 or sarcastic flake)
- [stated] Reactivation hierarchy: Level 1 = react with fire emoji to story; Level 2 = laugh at story + like replies; Level 3 = react to story + small talk; Level 10 = send lifestyle disappearing video (cat video tested on 20+ leads); Level 99 = hidden-tag leads in romantic story; never reactivate with a question, video or story only; "New day, new thread, send a media" when messages not opening