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name: coaching
description: How Ben runs his dating/relationship coaching (curriculum, reading list, delivery format). Read when helping with coaching content or client questions.
sources: [cowork]
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- [stated] Standard foundation reading list he gives clients: No More Mr. Nice Guy, My Secret Garden, Sperm Wars, The Rational Male; after those, clients typically read Models
- [stated] Teaches clients through voice messages (e.g. topics: attraction is not fair / biological attraction triggers; talk less, let her talk 80 to 90 percent)